What's really important to you? Do you want to spend more time with
loved ones? Do you want to look and feel better? Do you want to have
more money in your checking account? Most people do. We are constantly
comparing ourselves to others because some people seem to have what we
want when we're struggling to get it.
"I wish I looked like her."
"I wish I had a new car."
"I wish I had her energy."
"I wish I could afford a vacation."
"I wish I didn't have to go to work every day...I'd really like to stay home with my kids like she does."
"I wish ___________."
Whatever it is, you have dreams and wishes, too. If you don't, then
I wish
I lived your perfect life. I recently conducted a poll. It was very
brief, and the ladies that took my poll came from all walks of life:
SAHMs, nurses, teachers, health professionals, teen moms, single moms,
unemployed, hair dressers, cashiers, college students, law enforcement,
retired, etc. I simply asked them to rate the following individually on
a scale from 1-10 (10 being the highest priority):
- Personal Physical Appearance
- Overall Health
- Fitness
- Income
- Occupation (working your dream job)
- Time with Family
- Eating a Healthy Diet
The results really surprised me. But spoke to me about how we
often want something without putting in the effort needed to accomplish
it. Here are the results from the poll:
The #1 priority among the participants was
Time with Family.
Anyone can understand why that rated the highest. In fact, the only
reason it didn't end up being a perfect 10 is because of 1 participant.
We love our families. We'd love to have the freedom and time to be
with them more. Because "time is money," you need a good source of
income to allow the means to get to do what's most important to you.
That is probably why
Income ranked as high as it did. The participants understand the importance of income, but don't really mind what
occupation gets them what they need, even if it means not working their "dream job." The one that is most interesting to me is
Overall Health. This is also a high priority, but the participants did not feel like
eating a healthy diet or
fitness
were important. Doesn't that seem odd? Overall health is achieved
through proper diet and exercise. This isn't a new concept. You could
put
Physical Appearance into the same category. I'm not talking
about attractiveness, but appearance in terms of being fit and healthy.
Again, you can tie that back into proper diet and exercise to achieve
your ideal appearance (minus genetics, of course).
So,
why are Fitness and Eating a Healthy Diet not a high priority? It's
because they involve effort. Work. Planning. Doing.
Who has time for that? Most people would rather allow themselves time to watch a 2-hour-long show on TV (hello
Biggest Loser)
then go sweat for 30 minutes exercising (even though most workout
machines at the gym are equipped with TVs now). Everyone is busy and
tired. That's the reason most people pick up take-out or frozen meals
than spend 30 minutes baking chicken and veggies for dinner. If this is
stepping on your toes a bit, don't feel like I'm picking on you because
I was that person.
Until recently, you would have had to knock me unconscious and drag me through the doors to get me to enter a gym.
And I lied to myself all the time by thinking I was being good by
ordering a salad with my greasy-fried entree for dinner. I'm living
proof that change is possible. However, it wouldn't have happened in me
had it not been a gradual change.
How did I start? When I say
gradual,
I mean sluggishly gradual. This began over 2 years ago. Like most
people, I had the desire to look better, but, like most people, I was
lazy. I was introduced to this crazy wrap thing via Facebook. It gave
toning and tightening results without the work. Perfect for someone
like myself. I finally had my tummy back after 5 pregnancies without
having to diet or exercise.
(Read about my experience HERE and check out my results)
All
is perfect in the world! I had found what I thought could never
exist. Now that I looked better, I wanted to feel better. And while I
was at it, I wanted to make some money doing it.
Wouldn't it be great if I could make money showing people how to look and feel better? That exists, too, and without having to become a Personal Trainer. I joined
It Works!
to do that. To feel better, I simply just started using the products.
The health supplements are natural, whole food, and high quality.
Since they grow the ingredients that go into their products, they're
able to keep the cost affordable. I've been using It Works! products
for over 2 years. My body is getting the nutrients that it was lacking
due to poor diet. I feel great. Most people wake up tired, and are
tired and dragging until they lay their head down at the end of the
day. Thankfully, that's no longer me, and I contribute that to the
health supplements I use
I use the products; I tell
people about the products. They know they work because of my personal
testimony. When they try them, that's when I make money. It's that
simple. I actually get to enjoy those things that are high on my
priority list: Time with Family, Health, Income...and I can do it
without making sacrifices.
Fast forward to this past
July. I wanted to clean up our diet. Not just for me, but for my
entire family. Also, our budget was taking a huge hit from all the
eating out (FYI: cooking at home saves time and money). I slowly
started ridding my kitchen of junk food and replacing it with healthier
options. This change led me to become more active, as well. I'm now in
the gym 5-6 times a week and seeing a personal trainer. This decision
to become active isn't for appearances only (I'd lie if I said that I
don't LOVE that my legs are starting to show definition that I haven't
seen since I was a teen). This move to exercise was mainly driven my my
desire to take my health to the next level. Even with the best
supplements, and a great diet (which mine still isn't 100% "great" yet),
you need activity of some sort.
You don't have to go out and get a gym membership like I did.
Simply walking 4-5 days a week for 30 minutes at a time would be a
start. At least it's better than having your butt parked on a couch,
right? You have to start somewhere. Like I said, my start was
gradual...2 years worth of gradual and skating by on excuses. But
looking back, and knowing myself, I wouldn't have stuck with it if I
wasn't ready.
I look at my life today, and I'm thankful
and blessed. I love that I'm becoming more and more passionate about
my personal health, and my personal appearance is continuing to reflect
this, too. I love that I'm able to coach and help others get started
making the same positive changes that I have made. I love that I get to
earn money while bettering the health of others, my family, and
myself. And I get to do this from the comfort of my home.
All
7 of those bullet points on my poll should be a "10" for everyone. I
know that if I'd taken that poll a few years ago, my answers would be
similar to what the participants entered. I'm proud to say that if I
were to take it today, everything would be of utmost priority. If you
feel the same, or are ready to start moving in that direction, I'd like
to invite you to watch this video.
And feel free to contact me HERE.